Find Your Soulmate on the World Wide Web!
The world has evolved in such a way that you can do basically anything online. Grocery shop, see a doctor, go shopping and yes - even fall in love! SingSnap is no stranger to love connections but sometimes it can get overwhelming to connect with someone virtually. What do you say, who do you trust, how do you proceed? Whether you're using dating apps and just randomly connecting with someone - all you need to find your perfect match is the right mind-set and a few useful tips!
1. Be Authentic: It is absolutely essential that you be your authentic self. Keep it real and honest. (Just like you want your potential match to be!) Don't pretend you like something just to impress someone. Don't use 20 year old photos with loads of filters. Be YOU because you're wonderful and it is a gift when you share your time and heart with someone.
2. Trust Your Gut and Don't Make Excuses For People: Unfortunately, not everyone IS their authentic self. If something seems amiss, trust your gut. Make sure your potential match video calls with you so you know 100% they are 'real'. If they're only available at certain times or only while at work - something may be off. If you find yourself justifying why they're not fulfilling your needs that is a big red flag. Transparency has to exist if you can truly connect. And never, ever give money to people - (until you're in a long term, established information and have zero doubt who the person is) it might be a scam!
3. Don't Rush Into Things: With the above considered - you still need to take it slow. Everything feels amazing in the first few days of connecting with someone but it is important not to share TOO much personal information out of the gate. Allow the connection to be a slow burn. Take your time getting to know someone and before giving out all your personal details, make sure you have confidence the person is who they say they are.
4. Know Your Non-Negotiables: It's easy to get caught up in a love affair but before you get swept away, be sure you understand what your non-negotiables are. Are you willing to relocate? Do you want to date someone with kids? Do your lifestyles match up? Realistically, if you are talking to someone who lives in a different town, state or country - is it even feasible to be together? Protect your heart and only invest your time into people who you can genuinely see a future with.
5. Skip The Small Talk and Be Vulnerable: It's easy to keep things light but if you want to really connect with someone, you have to let your guard down and be vulnerable. Show all sides of your personality: The fun and goofy side, the intellectual side, the serious side - and expect the same in return!
6. Spend Time Together Doing Things Online: A great way to give your the connection the best chance at success is to spend time together. If distance makes it difficult to meet up in person right away - date virtually. Watch a movie together, play games or sing a duet on SingSnap! Bonding over mutual interest and spending time together will give you a feel for what it could be like in the flesh!
Finding love can be intentional or happen by accident. Being able to connect with someone is a gift and if you've been looking for love in all the wrong places - try a few of the above tips when you meet someone new who sparks your interest. You never know - you could be the next great SingSnap Love Story!
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